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Lines of Thought (3)
This I feel:
Overall there are four groups of families.
Group 1: This group has smaller amount of wisdom and money. It is thus powerless and lives in the darker side.
Group 2: This group has money but lacks the wisdom. It always seeks to improve its position, which is a good sign; however if it doesn’t look to gaining wisdom, it’ll end up among the losers.
Group 3: This group has more wisdom and brain than money. It is closer to the winners because it is able to understand the world better, is more flexible in difficulties, and can become rich easier by having the right connections and making the right decisions.
Group 4: This group has both wisdom & money, or at least sufficient amount of it, and makes the difference in its and other peoples’ conditions of life. It knows how to utilize wisdom using the right facilities and sheds light over difficulties. This group is definitely the winner among all because its existence makes major differences in life from the smallest to the most important matters.
/Bamshad\
داستان دو شهر – The Story of Two Cities
در زير متن داستانی بسيار با معنی را مشاهده ميکنيد که توسط دوستی عزيز از يکی از منابع اينترنتی به دست من رسيد. به نظر من بسيار ارزشمنده!
داستان دو شهر
مسافری نزدیک شهر بزرگی از زنی که کنار جاده نشسته بود پرسید: مردم این شهر چگونه اند؟
زن گفت: مردم شهری که از آن آمده ای چگونه بودند؟
مسافر پاسخ داد: بسیار بد، غیر قابل اعتماد و از هر نظر نفرت انگیز.
زن گفت: مردم این شهر نیز چنین اند.
هنوز مسافر اول نرفته بود که مسافر دیگری از همان شهر رسید و راجع به مردم آن شهر سوال کرد.
باز هم زن در مورد مردم شهری که مسافر از آن جا آمده بود سوال کرد.
مسافر دوم گفت: آن ها مردم خوبی بودند. راستگو، سخت کوش و بسیار بخشنده. از این که آنجا را ترک کردم غمگینم.
زن خردمند پاسخ داد: پس آن ها را در شهری که پیش رو داری باز هم خواهی یافت.
/Bamshad\
How to love others?
Love is a feeling. Love is an attitude. Love is an action. Love is a choice.
Steps
1. Enlarge your understanding. Your definition of love may be too narrow. Love is more than a good feeling or romance.You may say, “I love ice cream. I am in love with my companion. I love my family enough to labor every day to provide for them. I am compassionate toward hurting people, so I do my part to alleviate suffering and injustice in the world.”You do not need to agree with someone to act with consideration. You do not need to be attracted to someone to demonstrate a loving attitude.
2. Adjust the angle of your perspective. “It ain’t about you.” Love motivates people to sacrifice for others, not expecting any personal benefit. Stop thinking selfishly. Look for the needs of others, and then do your part to meet their needs.
3. Locate the source of love. You may love something because it is a source of pleasure. You may feel devotion to someone because you enjoy his or her company. Sympathy and compassion are foundations of love toward those living in difficult circumstances. Empathy is a starting place for love, as you identify the value of other citizens of this planet. Love may start as an expression of personal gratitude for the blessings you have received and your desire to share those blessings. Faith and spiritual devotion are powerful sources of selfless love.
4. Express your love. Find words and actions of love that are appropriate. Learn to speak words of blessing rather than criticism. Share your resources with a needy person. Participate in your community of faith. Offer gifts and perform thoughtful deeds with no ulterior motivation.
5. Accept disappointment. Not everyone will return your love. This is not failure. It is not your goal to make the world love you, but for you to love the world.
Tips
When you love unselfishly, you will experience a deeper and more spiritual feeling of gratification
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Collected by: Ehsan Talebniya