Trip to Kolakchal, Tehran. Beautiful day for all of us!

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Posted on 24th October 2007 by Bamshad (Bob) Lotfabadi in Archive

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I’m sure what I write here has been already put to different words, sentences, and songs by many other human beings. I realize there’s been a good reason for this effort by them. For that reason, I, also, like to contribute, to join-in, to share, and to sing the melody in my words, with my voice.

By planning and unwillingly meeting only a few of the special friends – those I haven’t really gone out camping with – I knew we will be facing a structurally simple day, and an opportunity to get closer to each other in feelings and the mind. It was early Wednesday morning when our group met in front of “Jamshidiyeh Park”.

The laughing and the warmer dialogs did not start until the cloud of doubt about why others are late vanished and were forced to give room to the light of determination and warm-smiling to the experience a head of us. The light shone on both our small group’s heart and the park environment, making the autumn trees look happier while letting go of their tired orange leaves on this quiet day. Our initial path through the park was carpeted by the orange and brown leaves and gray medium-sized pieces of stone that make this park famous in the city. We were now heading for top of Kolakchal, a short mountain beautiful as hundreds of other similar places around the city of Tehran.

As we walked along, we saw trees with their bent branches beautifying the scenery. The breeze did not make us cold but it did not make us warm either. We walked to the end of the park where the pavement of gray stones eventually faded out just to be replaced with more walkable mountain soil. But both this pavement and the scenery was to switch to something more exciting and honorable with in the next kilometer. We felt hard big rocks below our shoes, and a few powerful thunderstorms, and lots of rain above our heads. I enjoyed its every moment while exchanging smiles and short talks with others.

While going through the rain, walking, and climbing over the rocks and sometimes feeling something shaking our heart – the thunderstorm – I could feel the pure honest energy flowing in and around us. I have to admit walking with good friends, eating sunflower seeds, and sometimes listening to Aidin’s music through his battery-charged 20 Watt speakers really influenced me with its simplicity in joy. Sometimes you know that you have so many common things with valuable friends but you just don’t have the right tools to show why you think so, to show that you have discovered them. For that, trust needs be given and action taken. Now I knew these people are among the good people that I want to have further contact and more direct relationship with. The trip had given me a more touchable opportunity.

The weather had grown cold, the sky more dull. The natural mountain environment on this autumn day didn’t stop us from taking good photos though. It was a small celebration. Everything went well at the end of our climbing, and at the last mountain camping-station! We took off our wet rainy clothe and left them to dry-up. We bought some biscuit from the small lonely buffet at the station. Then we ate lunch and talked, and we drank hot tea too. During all these we exchanged positive talks and feelings. The sun was coming out. It was time to return. So at 1:45 PM, after a 2 hour stay at the station we started our climbing down. Since the group had good interaction the long distance was soon traveled and gave way to some short and sweet walking. Now Aidin’s MP3 music was more influencing.

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I don’t want to talk about all details of our climbing – either up or down – nor am I interested to stress the details of the last part of our trip (the walking, which was very beautiful and memorable) because I think the point has already been made, or so I hope. But what I do want to stress is that by taking advantage of moments and minutes to freely experience something social and new, either complex or more simple, you become younger at heart and at face. I like to try this more and give more way to those who want to walk into my life and put their heart next to mine in order to help make a bigger more worthy strength and energy, which will make it more sensible to feel the precious caliber of life with truth!

Kolakchal - Morteza - Bamshad - Hesam

Kolakchal - Aidin

Kolakchal - Bamshad
Thank you Morteza for taking beautiful photos!

/Bamshad\

My dreams and plans (1)

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Posted on 19th October 2007 by Bamshad (Bob) Lotfabadi in Archive


Dreams, Goals, and the Day-to-Day

Recently I have started to live a more scheduled life. I have written plans for my life activities and I have been successful in achieving many things I have wanted to do. During the summer for example, I reached around 48 percent of all things I had planned for then, which is a great figure for a real world! Now, once again, I’m planning for the next few months. This time, I am also considering my plans for the long-term. While these may alter and become more realistic, I think it is a pleasant effort in order to be more fruitful than ever before in life.


This is the link to the file that includes my long-term, middle-term, and short-term goals and plans. Click here to see the file!

/Bamshad\

My first test of a singing class in Iran!

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Posted on 17th October 2007 by Bamshad (Bob) Lotfabadi in Archive

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My favorit Iranian Singer - Shahram Nazeri
My favorite Traditional Iranian Music Singer – Shahram Nazeri

Several great things happened today besides the main topic I like to discuss here!.
In a variety of occasions I was able to communicate much stronger than the previous days. I felt that there was more challenge today, especially that the time I spent outside the house was much more than usual. Before writing about the singing class I attended today (it was for first time in my life and it was a very pleasant experience) let me write a bit about the things I did today:

Live Where Love Is

> Having several heated debates with my good friend Ehsan Sh.;
> Speaking English in the Farsi-speaking society with more comfort and unwillingly getting attention;
> Being called crazy (being too outgoing as I understand) by a university student, and hence making me explain myself more and think more about the society norms;
> Being invited to a “Farsi Literature & Poetry” meeting at university for tomorrow;
> Speaking to new very good students at the university campus (hopefully my future good friends), and
> Continuing strongly through-out the classes I had today, being more involved than the other students and feeling more relief in what I did;

My First Singing Class!

I am capable of singing well “if” I practice. I went to a traditional-singing class with my friend who is a student there. He can sing very well. I am surprised to see someone this good around me in managing his voice. Anyway, I was introduced to the method people practice singing Iran’s cultural music. This is done through the traditional master-student relationship.

Arrival
When we arrived, the master was playing Taar (an Iranian musical instrument like the Guitar)
I enjoyed the healthy comfortable atmosphere. After a while all students arrived and each one on his turn, started handing in his homework: singing a piece of the assigned song that was a famous Iranian piece of poetry. Mind you, I found out later on that some of the students can play a musical instrument as well. For example one could play the violin and the other, “Daf”. “Daf” is a Middle-Eastern musical instrument which acts like a mini-drum held by two hands.

The Students
The class was a mix of students with different capabilities. Two younger boys one of age 8 and the other around 16 were also in the class. The 8 year old boy who had the best voice and was very able in singing had such an interesting cute character. He had a very powerful and influencing voice that grabbed everyone’s feelings and moved emotions around. As it was so affective it really touched me and therefore made me recorded his voice for myself, just so that I can relax with it in close future.

My Singing Test!
At the end of the class I also sang for the master so that he could evaluate my potential in becoming a success in music!! He had a cheerful positive response and so did my good friend. When asking my friend how he felt about my voice, he replied, “You have a great affective voice and you can reach better places with your voice if you practice singing from the bottom of your throat” and he taught me a few things in how to manage my voice better!

What I taught about the Master and the whole experience
The master was relatively serious and that was my only concern in this beautiful atmosphere he had set up for learning to sing. Now, will I take singing lessons in the future? Perhaps later but not now.

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I’m not saying firmness is bad, but when it blocks the way to more understanding of the world, it becomes nothing but a painful burden on people’s shoulders. The master-student system I saw in the class was valuable because it kept everyone together and showed the value of the lesson. But as it stopped creativity and flexibility for the students (or maybe that’s the way it is with traditional music) it really loses its meaning. This is seen too often in the third world countries. The lesson should relate to the real life people live and offer valuable life-long help. That’s what sets that course apart from the many courses and lessons a person takes during his life. When I find my ansewer to some main questions, I will feel that it worth going for that experience: 1-What is the purpose? 2- How will it improve the life quality for me? (How will it improve my spiritual and economical power?)

I love to take more singing lessons. It is a real pleasure. But as I have more important things on my agenda at the moment, I think I will stick to getting my friend’s direct help instead of plunging seriously into the world of music :-)

/Bamshad\

Happiness does it. Life starts by reaching a few steps further.

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Posted on 15th October 2007 by Bamshad (Bob) Lotfabadi in Archive

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Happiness

Today was an awesome day. Just like yesterday. And just like the last few days as I have revamped my logic toward life. I think I have found a basis for how I should enjoy life more and reach my goals. Let’s see what I did today that makes me think happiness and satisfaction is all a state of mind and directly impacts your social stance and how it increases your chances to enjoy the occasions:

Today at university:

- I found new friends. I met three good students playing chess. I had a minimum amount of knowledge about these apparently cool guys at the university. So I broke into their group and exchanged introductory feelings. This was through the “braveness” I felt inside to test the waters.
- I made further, stronger relationship with a couple of employees at the university. I was full of joy when talking to them. It seemed like we both wanted to know more of each other and be better friends. They have helped me several times so far at risky works. People are good after-all!
- I listened to more friends talking. I interacted with two of my honest friends and enjoyed the conversation, learning new things. The students can be so full of experience!
- I relaxed more and enjoyed life from a safer seat at my classes. I conversed and argued like the previous days and I thanked two of my professors for their great job of honestly discussing their valuable viewpoints on life and allowing everyone to participate!

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I felt I have broken a few more of the mind-limits I experience often in life. Things have started to be much brighter!

I am happy. Many students are full of life, each in their own way. This life cannot be understood unless you realize something in each of these students is shining on. You know that they are somehow related to the very same life you live. In other words, when you miss an opportunity to make contact or turn your head away, you are just taking a small bit of beauty away from you life.

I think I am starting to break the limits I have deeper within me. Others, mind you, are not as limitless either, so I am not in bad circumstances. It is just that I realize life begins a few steps further away from me and continues from that point to infinity really. I know I need to come out of me and start my journey – a new journey every step of the way. A touch, a smile, a hello, an entry into a group you barely know (a new appropriate experience by your standards), a deeper & more careful listening to the message a person wants you to hold on to… These all have so much impact in making you a more real human.

An open mind in an environment with closed & locked doors opens so many windows of hope & joy for you and those who see and get the message. For those who won’t get the message right then, there will be many other opportunities in other places, other times, just like God’s love always has been, shining on every living creature. It’s just that you have to wait and understand that things will eventually move on if you stay on the correct track. The least I’m getting is great valuable experiences of what truth is and what love and hope can do for a person. :-)

Happiness

/Bamshad\

My Mom – DaD

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Posted on 12th October 2007 by Bamshad (Bob) Lotfabadi in Archive

My Mom & Dad – Love

“The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new.”

My Mom
My MoM & DaD (1)

“The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.”

“I remember my mother’s prayers and they have always followed me. They have clung to me all my life.”
My MoM & DaD (2)

“Mother love is the fuel that enables a normal human being to do the impossible.”

My Daddy
My MoM & DaD (3)

“How pleasant it is for a father to sit at his child’s board. It is like an aged man reclining under the shadow of an oak which he has planted.”

“Father in Heaven! When the thought of thee wakes in our hearts, let it not awaken like a frightened bird that flies about in dismay, but like a child waking from its sleep with a heavenly smile.”

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This post is an email that was sent by a Yahoo group to its members. The group name is “fun_and_fun_only. You can find it at the Yahoo Groups.

/Bamshad\

The Story of the Candles

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Posted on 10th October 2007 by Bamshad (Bob) Lotfabadi in Archive

THE FOUR CANDLES

All Four Candles Burning

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The Four Candles Burn Slowly
The four candles burn slowly.

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All Four Candles Burning
The ambiance was so soft you could hear them talking.

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The Four Candles
The first one said:
“I am PEACE!

However, Nobody can keep me lit.
I believe I will go out.”

Its flame rapidly diminishes and goes out completely.

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The Four Candles
The second one says:

“I am FAITH!

Most of all, I am no longer indispensable, so it doesn’t make any sense that I stay lit any longer.”

When it finishes talking, a breeze softly blew on it putting it out.

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The Four Candles
Sadly, the third candle spoke in its turn:

“I am LOVE!

I haven’t got the strength to stay lit. People put me aside and don’t understand my importance. Then even forget to love those who are nearest to them.”

And waiting no longer it goes out.

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The Fourth Candle
Suddenly…

A child enters the room and sees three candles not burning.

“Why are you not burning? You are supposed to stay lit till the end.”

Saying this, the child begins to cry.

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The Fourth Candle
Then the fourth candle said:

“Don’t be afraid, while I am still burning we can re-light the other candles,

I am

HOPE!”

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The Four Candles Burn Slowly
With shining eyes, the child took the candle of hope and lit the other candles.

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The Four Candles
The flame of hope should never go out from your life

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The Four Candles
… and that each of us can maintain Hope, Faith, Peace, and Love!!!!

My two cents on the movie we watched today: “One Flew Over The Cuckoo’s Nest”.

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Posted on 2nd October 2007 by Bamshad (Bob) Lotfabadi in Archive

Jack Nicholson in "One Flew Over The Cucko's Nest"

This was truly a one-of-a-kind movie. Knowing that it’d won many academy awards I wanted to watch it carefully and understand why this movie had been appreciated so much by the critiques. And I think I found my answer.

Let’s not go over the movie script and the actual plot, because I’m sure you can get that by doing a bit of search on the Internet (for example by going to this website: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0073486/, or http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/One_Flew_Over_the_Cuckoo’s_Nest_(film)
), or by watching the movie yourself (if you would like to have a copy of it, please let me know. Perhaps I can arrange it with my buddy, Aram, who presented the movie) What I would like to talk about however, are things that impacted me most in the movie. These could be clues to why a movie can get so much praise.

A man in his early 30s enters a mental institution due to the doubts he’s created in the local region’s social system leaders besides the psychiatrists. He’s to be examined for possible mental difficulties. He acts wild but he certainly isn’t crazy. He creates beautiful, trusting, and empowering relationship with the other patients. A message the storyline is offering it seems, is that when you are happy and you are bringing happiness and joy to the patients, you really become the best doctor they can ever have. That’s what really heals them. While the nurse’s over-disciplinary, dry, control-everyone behavior is assumed to work so well for the patients, the newly entered man and eventually the other patients prove the theory to be a total illusion. The movie demonstrates that you can have freedom only when you know your rights, and when you are ready to act on them. Along the same lines, the storyline reminds us that when you do know your rights you won’t jeopardize them because by knowing them you have power… power to lead your life the way you like, and in a way that can bring true joy to you and others. (I guess this is something that holy religions also point to. That when you know you are absolutely valuable, you won’t sell yourself cheap). Although these emotions are counteracted by the institution’s disciplinary system, especially by what the head-nurse practices, and although the movie ends by the very real death of the main movie character and a weaker-spirited patient, the main character leaves an effective symbol of heroism in the rest of the patients. The movie ends with one of the sincere friends of this main character escaping the institution.

I had a great time watching the movie. I hope I will have more opportunities to watch beautiful movies like this one. It’s the winner of 5 Oscar awards! Thank you Aram for selecting and presenting it in the class!

/Bamshad\